Saturday, June 16, 2012

Ashes Forever Interview


Ashes Forever
Ashes Forever is a two piece metal band from New York City. Having played several shows all over the east coast and sharing the stage with names like Rosetta, Another Breath, and Shai Hulud, they are a forced to be reckoned with. The band consisting of Matt Dillon and James Gaskill originally formed under the name “Don’t Give a F***” and released their first EP “A Girl Burning and Dying” last year. They have since changed their name to Ashes Forever and released their second EP entitled “Love, Leave, Forget, Repeat,” which is available to download on Bandcamp. 


Known for their dynamic sound, unconventional time signatures, melodic intricacies, and passionate vocals, Ashes Forever redefies their genre. Dillon on drums, while simultaneously contributing to vocals, takes listeners by surprise with each change in time signature. Gaskill contributes creative riffs and more heartfelt vocals. Every intended emotion can be felt in their music and leaves no listener second-guessing as to what they’re about.

With the use of social networking websites and other forms of new technology, Ashes Forever has emerged and established a solid fan base. They have proved that the financial backing from a label is unnecessary in order to become successful. However, dealing with negative emotions, “hard negotiators,” and “positional bargainers,” has not made the road easy for them. As with any industry, difficulties in negotiation will arise (whether it regards problems with autonomy, role, status, appreciation, or affiliation). Roger Fisher describes how to effectively counteract these difficulties in his works, “Beyond Reason” and “Getting to Yes.”

I had the opportunity to interview Matt Dillon and ask him about his experiences as musician starting out in the new era of DIY. His extensive knowledge about the music scene has made him quite the resource for other indie musicians looking to establish their careers within the music industry. He was kind enough to answer some questions and offer some advice.


When did you first discover your passion for music and how did you decide that you wanted to make a career of it?

“The first time I ever sat behind a drum set, I was in love. It took me years to really develop the level of playing I'm at now, so I was never really serious about going the distance with any of my previous bands. It was all just really a learning experience for me, and helped me develop my skills. When I started this band with James, things were different. We really clicked when writing music, and there was an element of freedom and growth there early on that we haven't ever experienced before. That realization was axiomatic for both of us from the first practice on, and we've been working our hardest ever since.”

Why the name change? Did it impact your style of music at all? Was it hard getting fans to recognize the switch?

“Up until we released our first album, we really didn't know where we were going from a marketing standpoint. It was all a learning experience for us. I guess at first, we just wanted to just have fun (hence the name Don't Give A F***), but then we wrote our lyrics, and the things we wrote about evolved into something more serious, and we wanted our band name to reflect that. With our second EP, we changed our name to Ashes Forever, something we thought was more marketable and relevant to us. However, I don't regret the old name at all though. It let people know early on our feelings about the music industry, and it's an important part of our band history.”

As an independent musician just starting out, was it hard to make industry contacts and find networking opportunities? What were some of the difficulties you faced?

“Absolutely, it is always a hard thing for anyone in an unsigned band. Fortunately for us, my bandmate James is an established promoter with a degree in Music Business, and he books the majority of the shows for our genre in our location. He's worked really hard over the years and has gathered more contacts than the average person, so that makes things a little easier on us when it comes to playing in or around our home town. Playing out of town though, that's a hassle. It really comes down to just making friends in other bands and hoping they have connections like we do in their home town. Sometimes we get lucky and we'll find a nice DIY establishment that actually cares about helping unsigned bands play. Most of the time though, it's like squeezing water from a stone because it's all about who you know or how much money you'll make, so you have to be aware that these things are going to be extremely difficult for you when you start a band. When it comes to networking with industry contacts, the best ones we have are the ones that reach out to us for a review or an interview because they actually like our music. Most independent works that claim to be catered to independent artists aren't. Again, it's about how much exposure you are going to get them, not the other way around, so you must have a substantial following before they take you on. It's a dilemma, because industry help is essential for your growth as a band. That's a hardship that unfortunately most bands will have to face.”

From where do you draw your inspiration?

“I know this sounds cliché because I've read this same answer in a lot of interviews, but we literally draw our inspiration from everything we hear, and that's why our band is so weird and hard to classify. Our influences range everywhere from classical music to death metal, and we try to write in such a way where there is something in our music for everyone. We've been labeled as "genre-defying" in another interview, but I think we get way too much credit for that than we actually deserve. We are always challenging ourselves as musicians, and part of that challenge is recycling as little as possible from previous works. Unfortunately, a vast majority of the popular bands these days essentially are just a repackaged version of a band before them, because they use the same writing style and technique. I don't think we are pioneering a new genre or anything, I just think we are just pioneering individuality and personal growth in the scene, something I'd like to see way more of in the future.”

What was it like to play with other big names? How did those experiences come about?

“We've been extremely fortunate to have the opportunity to play with a lot of well-established big names. Some of those came from James, and some of those just came from working hard, simply put. Hard work does pay off. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. If you practice as much as you possibly can, eventually that will set you apart from other bands.”

What has been the most rewarding experience you’ve had thus far?

“Every time a fan tells us our music means something to them, every time a fan downloads our free album, every time a fan pays for a CD, every time people come to see us live, every question our fans ask us, that all means a great deal to us. That is the reason we continue to do this, and nothing else is more important.”

This class that I’m taking now is focused on negotiating and deal making. Have you ever had to deal with negative emotions or work towards a mutually beneficial agreement with someone in the music industry?

“I'm sure James has way more stories about this than I do when it comes to booking shows, but there definitely is something that comes to my mind. When we recorded our first EP, we were offered a deal by someone we didn't know too well. He was going to record us for cheap, and in return he'd gain exposure and future clientele through us. It was a pretty simple recording that wouldn't require too much work on his end. Long story short, he had us wait in the studio for 12 hours and start recording drums at 5 am, guitars at 8am, vocals that night. Needless to say, it was a horrible experience, but we were grateful for it. He then made us wait 4 months for a mix he spent maybe an hour on, and then demanded we play in his band because we "owed" him, or he would sue us for the rights to our songs.”

Some professionals in the music industry have negative reputations. Have you ever had to deal with someone using dirty tricks or treating you unfairly?

“One time we played this huge fest, and we were the only band not officially listed on the bill. Even though we were higher up in the card, drew a lot of people, and heard the headlining bands say in interviews that they couldn't wait to finally play with us, a lot of people didn't think we deserved to be officially advertised for it like every other band was, or included on the posters, t-shirts, and promotional CDs. The day before the show, we were asked if we could play the following day instead, after having a lot of people preorder tickets for our day. We didn't let that happen, but after unloading all of our equipment day of the show, we were told that we only had ten minutes (set up and take off time included). As we set up, the previous band had no idea we were playing, so they invited everyone out for an intermission. It was a huge slap in the face, but something all unsigned bands should be prepared for.”

Would you prefer remaining independent or signing with a label? Why?

“I'm happy we've had to work really hard to get to where we are, but it certainly is frustrating seeing some bands get picked up by independent labels that have never played a show, or let alone spent any money on their music. I can't see how work ethic like that can make any label money, especially when a lot of the time these bands are just a bunch of overused, recycled ideas. Maybe one day if there is a label that thinks outside of the box and approaches us because they love our music, we'll consider, but at the pressing moment the idea of signing to a label is just as off-putting as it is exciting to get our music to a larger audience.”

Do you have any advice for other independent musicians just starting out?

“My number one piece of advice would be to get a job. Unless you are Chester Bennington in Linkin Park, your music is not going to pay for itself. Practice a lot, and prioritize your spending. Shell out extra money when you can for a better recording, or pressed CDs compared to those DIY ones you were thinking about doing. If applicable, work with contracts. Expect to work hard and be stressed out all of the time. One day, it might pay off. Until then, have fun with what you are doing, because that is the most important thing.”

It seems as if through hard work and dedication, Ashes Forever know who they are, where they want to be, and how to get there. Visit their Facebook for more information about new releases and upcoming performances.

Fisher, R., Ury, W., & Patton, B. (1991). Getting to yes: negotiating agreement without giving in (2nd ed.). New York, N.Y.: Penguin Books.
Fisher, R., & Shapiro, D. (2005). Beyond reason: using emotions as you negotiate. New York: Viking.

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